3 C's: Men & Women Getting What They Want!!

This post is a plug from my Motif.

Communication- Please don't feel that the LESS you state means the LESS she knows therefore the LESS she can get mad about!! That's the most backwards thinking ever. All that means is that there is much MORE to find out about, the much MORE to address, therefore the MORE angry/upset women get. Men, you can save a lot of drama by being open in communication, if your talking to a bunch of females say it, if your not looking for a relationship (which none of you seem to be) saying so is not going to deter us, for some of us, we accept the challenge.

Consideration- Respecting someone is being considerate. Take in to consideration that women that work, go to school have a career, maintain healthy friendships, God fearing, family oriented woman deserve nothing less than what they are portraying. Men fail to realize that once you take for granted how good a woman is by not appreciating or acknowledging her efforts in just simply MAINTAINING womanhood, they are disrespecting her as a person. There are too many woman that are SLACKERS, not taking care of their HEALTH or BODY, and just rather "lay down" and get F$%$@$, (and then screw u for child support) so the few that are stepping up to the challenge in today's trifling society truly do deserve recognition, maybe by a friendly movie or dinner date will suffice from time to time. Consider treating the worthy woman different than the "rest of them".

CONSISTENCY!! This is the KEY, it ties all the C's together! If you are not going to communicate or consider shit in the beginning don't start or stop now. Becoming inconsistent is a form of lying. When we got with you in the beginning we accepted who u were and what u were giving then, if u change or stop, u r no longer who u were then therefore you lied to us about what u really were about and who u really are! Believe it or not, if you never called consistently in the beginning we aren't going to expect it now, but don't be all pressed to impress, then and expect US to be ok w/ the SLACKER who seemed to get too DAMN comfortable. When u drop off the face of the earth for what u think is a moment, there is always a man challenging your title, that is definitely worth defending. If you r gonna be a scatter brain throughout the "relationship" (or lack there of) then opt for being consistently inconsistent, but please, please, i plead for u to just stay consistent in being inconsistent. If for some reason things are headed for change and u feel it coming then please refer back to C1, COMMUNICATE that a change is coming, so we wont be taken for loop. Its like your dating a woman for years touching her long "Indian like" hair (cause she told you she got Cherokee in her), and one night it all just slips off, no warning, no nothing, your left there with a hand full of hair and a woman you thought you knew!!

Disclosure.....

Triple C Effect only works when used together Harmoniously, failure to incorporate all three together leads to dysfunction! But BELIEVE ME, these three rules will grant you the relationship you desire, WHATEVER that relationship is!!

This was so beautifully said. I have to refer back to this very often.